Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
Principle #4 – Always be closing – After you meet her, you should be leading the interaction forward toward some kind of relationship (either romantic or just sexual). Keep in mind that you need to get her out on a real date and take the steps toward beginning a relationship and getting physical together.
Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.
Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.
If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.
She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.
Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.
Imagine if you were about to start driving a car, but you had one foot on the gas and one on the brake. The same is true when you get a girl’s number and start making any of these three deadly texting mistakes.
You already put the effort in of getting her interested in you and getting her number…